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Growing Grace – A collection of stories about adoption



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There are many stories of adoption that can be inspiring to a new parent. Growing Grace is a great example. This is the story about Maci's adoptive mother and Maci her birth family. A series of events occurred after the family adopted a special needs baby. The family made the decision to become foster parents after the birth of the special-needs child.

Growing Grace

Growing Grace is a collection of stories about adoption that are told from the perspective the biological mother. These stories are about the joys and struggles of being a parent as well as the relationship between the biological mother, and the child. They are meant to raise questions and open up the conversation about adoption.

Adoption experts who have lived the experience firsthand write the stories. They offer insights and perspectives that are grounded in biblical wisdom. In addition, their heart for people shows through in their writing. The authors share stories about God shaping their families and how they embrace their new connection with their family. They also talk about grief and the pain of loss. These stories offer insight into how to celebrate the connection between the child and the parents as well as ways to move on.


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Maci's story

Maci was a troubled girl, and she spent the first four year of her life in a group facility. Her father overdosed on drugs when she was two years old, and her mother had a drug addiction. She died at the age of 10 years. Maci, along with being abused and neglected by her mother's boyfriend at three years old, also had chronic ear infections that led to her losing her hearing. Maci slept on the couch and never had a bed in her own bedroom.


Maci is happy despite her physical handicaps. She is unable to use her left arm or hand. This means she won't be able to sustain herself as well with her left arm. Taylor McKinney (her adoptive father) and Darin J. Jones (her adoptive mother) are both former law enforcers who have recently opened a Vero beach restaurant. Lisa Jones, her biological mother, had just started a new job and the child was being raised in a new relationship.

Maci's adoptive family

Taylor McKinney (now 18) and Maci Kean (now 18), are contemplating adding another child into their family. Even though the couple already have three children, the addition to their family could make a difference. Maci seems open and willing to consider adoption.

Taylor and Maci have two biological kids and a son. Maci has previously spoken out to Us Weekly regarding her plans to adopt another baby. McKinney, she also said that they were thinking of adopting.


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Maci's birth mother

Maci's adoption story is one of the most moving stories. She was abused at home by her father at age two, and her mother at age ten. She had ear infections at three years of age and lost her hearing. One day, she decided to remove her hearing aids from her abuser in an attempt to deafen his voice. She never had a bed in her bedroom and spent most of her time sitting on the couch. She was eventually adopted by a loving family.

When Maci was just two years old, she had been adopted by a retired Indian River County sheriff's officer. After the birth of her child, Maci's biological mother had abandoned her child to Stevie Wallace. Maci's biological parents were unaware that Maci had been abused. They adopted her as a result.




FAQ

How can you raise a great teenager?

It is important to be a good parent in order to raise a healthy teenager. To ensure that your children don't become dependent upon you, it is crucial to understand how to set boundaries.

Also, teach them how you can manage your time. They need to be able to budget their own money. They should learn how to budget their money.

You will raise an unruly child, who could become a troubled adult, if you don't discipline them.

Teach them responsibility. Give them responsibilities such as helping around the house, taking out the trash, and cleaning the dishes.

You must teach them respect for themselves. This teaches them how to dress appropriately, treat others, and speak respectfully.

Give them the opportunity to make decisions. Let them decide which college they want to attend. Let them also decide whether they want to be married.

Let them know the importance of education. It is crucial that they finish high school before making a decision about a career.

Encourage them. Listen to what they have to say. If they are not asked, do not give advice.

Let them fail. Recognize mistakes and failures. Encourage them and to keep trying again.

Have fun. Enjoy living with them.


Why are some children not following their parents' directions?

Children are naturally curious, and they want to learn from other children. They have an inborn desire to please adults without being punished. If they don't understand why certain rules are important, they might lack self-discipline.

Children must be taught the importance of rules and how they can be broken.

They must also recognize that following rules does no mean they have to surrender their freedom. It just means that they will be safe and happy.

This will make it easier for them to grasp.

These are some ways to teach your kids how to be better parents.

  1. Explain to them why the rules are important.
  2. Teach them the importance of consequences.
  3. Encourage them to learn self-control
  4. Have fun.
  5. Don't expect perfection.
  6. Encourage them asking questions.
  7. You should be praised for your effort and not just your results.


What should first-time mothers know?

First-time mothers need to realize how much they still have to learn. They need to understand that they are not alone on this journey.

There have been many other women who have gone before you. They've also learned from their experiences.

They will find support and encouragement from these ladies.

And they'll feel less isolated as they make their way into motherhood.


Is gentle parenting good?

It depends on what you mean by "good." If you want to talk about the way children are treated, then yes. However, if you're asking whether it's good for them, I'd have to say no. They require discipline and firmness sometimes. They'll never be able to properly behave otherwise.

Children need limits and rules. Without these, they will never know what's acceptable behavior and what's not. They will not be able to respect others or follow instructions.

If you were to ask me which parenting style would I choose, I'd answer none. Each style is equally effective. The key is to find the one that is most effective for you and/or your family.


How can I stop my child bullying other children?

Bullying is a problem that many young people face today.

Some children bully others because they feel insecure. Others bully because they enjoy seeing someone else suffer.

Bullies often don't realize how much damage they can cause. They believe that they're doing nothing wrong.

So it's important to find ways to prevent bullying in schools.

Here are some helpful tips:

  • Teach students the different types of bullying. Explain to students that bullying can be both positive and harmful.
  • Talk with your child about bullying. Talk to your child about bullying.
  • Encourage empathy in your child. Encourage him or her to put himself or herself in other people's shoes.
  • It is important that your child understands how to stand up for themselves and herself.
  • Be consistent. If you tell your child to not touch another student, be consistent.
  • Pay attention to your child's progress at school.
  • Tell teachers if your child is being bullied.
  • Do not use harsh words when speaking to your child. Instead, use gentle and kind language.
  • Set clear boundaries. Your child must know exactly where he or her stand with you.
  • Stand up for your child and show your support.
  • Together as a family. Parents and siblings can help each other keep the peace.
  • Be wise with your punishments and rewards. Rewards are great for chores and good grades. Punishments work well for misbehavior.



Statistics

  • Dr. Phil says, “Children should be able to predict with absolute certainty, what will happen as a result of their behavior, 100% of the time.” (parenting.kars4kids.org)
  • They are even more likely to have dental cavities because permissive parents often don't enforce good habits, like ensuring a child brushes their teeth. (verywellfamily.com)



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How To

How to be a good mother

Good mothers try to understand their children's needs, even when she fails. She may offer love, support, and guidance. This article explains how you can become a good mother.

Motherhood is one the most difficult jobs you will ever do. It takes patience, understanding. empathy. selflessness. And above all, unconditional loving. You must learn to balance your own wants and desires with your child's. You have to be willing to sacrifice for them. And ultimately, you must accept the fact that being a parent means making choices that may not always be easy, but they're still yours.

Your child will tell you the truth and you'll know you're doing right until then. You'll do your best to protect them and teach them honesty and responsibility. They will learn from your mistakes and you'll help them to develop values and morals.

As they get older, you will try to help them prepare for adulthood. You'll teach them how you manage money effectively and how to live cheaply. You'll encourage them to pursue goals and dreams and to take risks.

But you won't force them to go to college, marry, or buy a house. You will let them make the decisions. They'll be guided by you, but they'll make their own decisions.

You will help your children build a strong character, self-esteem, and character if you do a good job. They will feel more confident about their own identity and the things they desire in life. And they'll be grateful to you for giving them a chance at success, no matter what happens next.




 



Growing Grace – A collection of stories about adoption