The first year of parenthood can be a sleepless one, with many new parents losing 44 to 50 full nights of sleep! This is because they must keep a helpless baby alive while being constantly alert and awake. Do not despair if your sleeplessness is a problem. You have many options to get better sleep and stay alert.
You can sleep according to your baby's schedule
Sleeping well is a major challenge for new parents. Regular diaper changes and frequent feedings can make it difficult for parents to get enough sleep. While your primary concern should be your baby's health, it is also important to take some time for yourself. Most babies can get to sleep on a regular basis. You can improve your sleep by doing these things:
Exercise reduces stress
Exercise is good for your body and mood. Exercise can help you sleep better and reduce anxiety and depression. Not only that, but it gives you more control over your body.
Sunlight
The benefits of sunlight and fresh air have been proven to reduce stress. This is particularly important for parents who are new. It is easy to spend all day indoors caring and feeding your baby. But, fresh air will help you feel happier and more relaxed.
Fresh air
Fresh air can be a great way to relieve exhaustion as a parent. Fresh air can help babies fall asleep and nap soundly. You can take your baby for a short walk outside every day or to the park. Even if it's only for a few moments, your baby will experience slight improvement in their sleeping habits. Fresh air has many other health benefits.
Dr. Harvey Karp's renowned methods for relieving stress
Harvey Karp, a psychologist and author, has been providing practical advice to new parents for over ten years. This is in an effort help them cope with the daily struggle of parent exhaustion. His unique methods incorporate science and technology to address many of the problems that new parents face. He claims that his four-figure bedding system improves sleep quality for both parents, as well as the health of babies.
FAQ
Is gentle parenting good?
It depends on your definition of "good." If you're talking about how children are treated, then I would say yes. If you ask me if it's beneficial for them, then I would say yes. They require discipline and firmness from time to time. They'll never be able to properly behave otherwise.
Children need to know their limits and have rules. Without them, children will never know what is acceptable behavior. They won't learn how to respect others as well as follow instructions.
If you want to know which parenting style I favor, it would be none. Each one is equally effective. The important thing is to choose the one that best suits you and your family.
How can I stop my son or daughter from bullying others.
Bullying is a common problem among today's youth.
Some children bully others out of insecurity. Some bully to make someone else feel bad.
Most bullies aren't aware of the damage they cause. They think they're doing no wrong.
Therefore, it is crucial to prevent bullying in schools.
Here are some tips:
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Teach students all about bullying. Explain that bullying comes in many forms.
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Talk with your child about bullying. Tell your child you don't like when they pick on other people.
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Your child should be able to show empathy. Encourage him or her to put himself or herself in other people's shoes.
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Make sure your child is able to defend themselves.
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Be consistent. Follow through if you tell your child not to touch another student.
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Keep an eye on your child at school.
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Teachers should be notified if your child has been bullied.
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Don't use harsh words or insults with your child. Instead, be kind and gentle.
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Set clear boundaries. Your child needs to know where he or she stands with you.
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Stand up for your child and show your support.
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Work together as a family. Parents and siblings can support each other to maintain peace.
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Use rewards and punishments with care. Rewards are great for chores and good grades. For misbehavior, punishments work well.
Which parenting style do you think is most appropriate in America today?
The traditional family model is not as popular today as it was 50 years ago because families are changing. The role of parents in raising children has become less important. They are looking to spend more time with themselves than their children. This is called helicopter parenting. It's where parents hover around their children 24/7. They are there to supervise them at all costs. They make sure they exercise regularly, eat healthy, and sleep well at night. This kind of parenting can cause stress for both parents and children. Kids feel like they're missing out on childhood experiences, while parents feel guilty if they aren't around all day long.
This parenting style doesn't teach children how to take good care of themselves. This type of parenting teaches children to rely on their parents for everything. Instead of teaching independence and dependence, parents teach dependence. Children learn that they need adult help to succeed. If they fail, then they blame themselves.
This can lead to children feeling worthless and inadequate. They think they are failures, because they didn’t live up the expectations. They lack self-confidence because they were not taught how to handle failure.
This parenting style is not as popular due to the fact that there are less two-parent households. When both parents work outside the home, it makes it harder for them to be available to their kids. Many parents find themselves raising their children alone.
Nowadays, parents want their kids to be happy and healthy. They don’t want to worry about whether their kids get enough sleep, eat well, and exercise. They want their children to be happy and able to enjoy their lives. That's why they hire nannies, tutors, and other caregivers to watch after their kids.
They don't wish to have control over every aspect in their child's lives. They don’t want them to make mistakes and think they can do it all the time. They want them learn from their mistakes and to try again.
Good parenting is essential.
Good parenting is essential for children to become independent, well-adjusted adults that can cope with all the challenges of life. They learn how to make decisions and accept responsibility.
Good parents help their children learn self-control, manage emotions and cope with stress. They help children set and reach their goals.
They encourage their children explore new interests and talents. They ensure that their children have the resources and opportunities they need to succeed.
They treat all people with equal respect. They do not discriminate against any person based on their race, religion or gender.
They create an environment where all family members feel safe and secure.
Statistics
- Most adults will become parents at some point in their lives (i.e., around 89.6% of the adult population worldwide; Ranjan, 2015). (positivepsychology.com)
- Dr. Phil says, “Children should be able to predict with absolute certainty, what will happen as a result of their behavior, 100% of the time.” (parenting.kars4kids.org)
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How To
How can I discipline my children?
You can discipline your child in many different ways, but the goal should be to make them understand why they did that wrong and not repeat it.
Here are some suggestions:
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Explain to your child why you think they did something wrong.
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Give them time limits. For example, "I'm going to give you 5 minutes to clean your room. If you aren't done by the timer's alarm, you will have to stay at school.
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Praise good behavior.
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Do not punish poor behavior.
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Make sure your child knows what consequences there will be if they misbehave.
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Use rewards rather than punishment. Rewards include praise, stickers, toys, etc.
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Set clear expectations for your child.
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Be consistent.
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Avoid shouting or shouting.
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You must follow through with punishments.
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Talk calmly and firmly to your child.
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Be in control of your emotions
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Speak softly and don't shout.
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Show love and affection.
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Do not hit your child.
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Take the time to be clear.
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Remember, children are only tiny once in their lives.
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Always keep your word.
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Listen to your child.
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Understanding that children are not stupid is key.
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Have patience.
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Be kind to your child.
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Keep calm.
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Encourage your child to share his/her feelings.