Many stories of adoption can be inspirational to new parents. Growing Grace is an example of such a story. It tells the story of Maci and her adoptive parents. A whole host of events happened after the family decided to adopt a child with special needs. In the wake of this, the family decided they wanted to be foster parents to care the special needs child.
Growing Grace
Growing Grace is a series of stories about adoption, which are written from the perspective of the biological mother. These stories examine the joys as well as challenges of becoming parents, and also the connection between the biological parent and her child. They aim to open the discussion on adoption and ask questions.
Adoption experts, who have personally experienced the process, write the stories. These experts offer insight and perspectives that are rooted in biblical wisdom. Their compassion for people shines through their writing. The authors share stories of how God shaped their families and how they have embraced their new family connection. They also highlight the pain of loss and grief. These stories offer guidance on how to get past the grief and celebrate the relationship between the child and his or her birth parents.
Maci's story
Maci was a troubled young girl who spent the first four years of her life living in a group home. Her mother and father both overdosed on drugs at the age of two. When she was ten years old, she died. Maci, along with being abused and neglected by her mother's boyfriend at three years old, also had chronic ear infections that led to her losing her hearing. Maci slept on the couch and never had a bed in her own bedroom.
Maci is a happy child, despite her physical disabilities. Maci has limited arm and left hand use. Due to this, she cannot support herself using her left hand. Her adoptive parents, Taylor McKinney and Darin Jones, are both former law enforcement officers who had recently opened a restaurant in Vero Beach. Lisa Jones, Lisa Jones' biological mother, had just taken a new position and was raising her child with a new boyfriend.
Maci's adoptive family
Taylor McKinney and Maci Kean (18 years old) are looking to add another child to the family. Although they already have three children, a fourth child would be a significant change in the dynamics of the family. Maci has expressed an openness to the idea of adoption.
Taylor and Maci have two biological kids and a son. Maci has previously spoken out to Us Weekly regarding her plans to adopt another baby. McKinney was also mentioned by Maci.
Maci's mother was her birth mother
Maci's story of adoption and her birth mom is heartbreaking. Her father, who died when she was just two years old, had abused her, and her mother, a recovering addict, died at 10 years. At three years old, she lost her hearing due to ear infections. One time, she removed her hearing aids in order to hear her abuser's voice. She never had a bedroom and spent most of her time on the couch. She was eventually adopted into a loving family.
Maci, who was only two years old, had been adopted by a retired Indian River County sheriff’s officer. After the baby's birth, her biological mom had already left her child with Stevie Wallace. Maci's biological parents were unaware that Maci had been abused. They adopted her as a result.
FAQ
Which parenting style in America is the most preferred?
The traditional family model is not as popular today as it was 50 years ago because families are changing. It is becoming less common for parents to be involved in the raising of children. They prefer to be with their children and spend more time alone. This is known as helicopter parenting. It is when parents hover above their children all day. They supervise their kids at all times. They make sure their children eat right, exercise properly, get to sleep at night, and so on. This type of parenting creates a lot of stress for both kids and parents. The kids feel like they're missing out, while the parents feel guilty that they're not there every day.
This type of parenting does not teach children how they can take care of their own health. It teaches them to rely on adults for everything. Instead of teaching independence parents are teaching dependence. Children learn that success requires adult help. If they fail, then they blame themselves.
This can lead to children feeling worthless and inadequate. Because they failed to live up to their expectations, they believe they are failing. And since they weren't taught how to deal with failure, they also lack self-confidence.
Another reason this parenting style isn't as popular is the decrease in two-parent households. It is more difficult for parents to be available to their children when both work. So many parents end up raising their kids alone.
These days, most parents want to raise happy, healthy kids. Parents don't want their children to be stressed about getting enough sleep, eating right, and exercising. They want their children to be happy and able to enjoy their lives. They have hired tutors, nannies or other caregivers so they can focus on their own lives.
They don't wish to have control over every aspect in their child's lives. They don't want children to believe they are perfect and never make mistakes. They want them to learn from their mistakes and try again.
Is it the most difficult time for parents to raise a teenager?
Teenagers can be difficult to manage as they may not always want what you expect. They may also rebel against parents authority.
Teenagers are just as dependent on guidance and love as any other age. Teenagers need to be taught how to make decisions and to take responsibility.
They require time to be left alone, with supervision, but not too much freedom. They need to be able to recognize when they can ask for help.
Teenagers tend to be independent and self-sufficient. But this doesn't mean they don't need your support.
Teens must feel loved by their parents and be taken care of. They must see their parents as role models who set good examples for them.
It is also important for teens to be able to comprehend why certain rules are needed. Teens should not smoke cigarettes or consume alcohol.
Parents need to teach their children how to tell right from wrong. They should also explain the consequences if they break these rules.
Parents should show their children that they value their opinions. This means listening carefully to what they say.
It means being open to compromise.
Teenagers sometimes rebel and become angry. It's not always a bad thing. This is actually good news.
Teens who act out are usually trying to express something deep in their hearts.
They may feel lost or confused. Or they may be having trouble coping with life changes.
It's important to listen to your teen's feelings. Then try to figure out what's causing his or her behavior.
It's easier to solve problems if you know what they are.
How can I tell if my child needs more or less discipline?
Different developmental stages may require different amounts or discipline.
A spanking may be beneficial for children younger than 2 years.
Your child may require more structure and guidance if he/she is older.
Before making major parenting changes, it is important to discuss any changes in the behavior of your child with your doctor.
Statistics
- Most adults will become parents at some point in their lives (i.e., around 89.6% of the adult population worldwide; Ranjan, 2015). (positivepsychology.com)
- Dr. Phil says, “Children should be able to predict with absolute certainty, what will happen as a result of their behavior, 100% of the time.” (parenting.kars4kids.org)
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How To
What does positive parenting look like?
Positive parenting involves helping children be happy and healthy. Parents need to provide the right support and encouragement for their children.
Positive parenting is teaching children problem-solving skills, decision-making, conflict resolution and communication. It also includes encouraging cooperation, initiative, resilience, self-esteem as well as motivation, perseverance, perseverance, creativity, and self-esteem.
Parents should encourage their children to acquire these qualities.
These activities are a good way to encourage positive parenting.
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Spend quality time together.
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Help your children practice social skills.
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Feedback is welcome.
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Teach your children values and morals.
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Model appropriate behavior.
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Give your children the opportunity to succeed.
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Show your children you care about them.
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Share your knowledge and your experiences with your children.
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Make your children laugh and have fun.
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Do chores around your home with your children.
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Give your kids choices.
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When your children do something well, praise them.
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Give praise to your children for trying new things.
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Respect your children’s privacy.
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Tell your children the truth.
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Treat your children like people.
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Role model.
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Talk to your children so that they feel encouraged to talk back.
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Avoid harsh language.
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Set clear limits.
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Use rewards and consequences effectively.
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You should explain why you want your child to behave in this way.